21 March 2011

Bura Na Maano, Holi Hai

Of all festivals in India, Holi is a special one. It took me two decades to realize this! Sad

In the part of India where I grew up, the festival had lost its true meaning. Holi meant bhang, it meant rotten eggs, it meant street gang wars, it meant mud, slime, engine oil and tar, it meant tearing clothes and it meant molesting unsuspecting girls. These adulterations had meant a fear psychosis for those who did not derive the above meanings from the festival. For instance, during my early childhood at Ranchi, I never participated or witnessed a full scale Holika dhahan.

As I type this, my hands are dabbed in turmeric yellow, my face is a canvas of green and red hues and my clothes are still damp due to jets of colored water streaking from children’s ‘pichkari’. In short, for the first time, I had a ‘civilized’ Holi.

Last night, I was amazed to see the community spirit behind constructing and torching a Holi bonfire. Kids from the building had spent the day rummaging the neighborhood scouting for anything combustible – paper, straw, fallen twigs, dry leaves, golden hay and even baked cow dung cakes. They had piled these up in the form of an imperfect cone with two or three gaps along the surface to allow feeding the torches. When the night enveloped, the elders came out with pooja thalis and took over from where the children had left. A dry, husk covered coconut is offered to the fire. The burning of the coconut is symbolic of cleansing of all ills and sins. I found this rather interesting.

I think I saw a new side of Holi today.

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28 October 2008

Diwali Wishes

Some days back, I met a girl from my school. This was after some 11 years or so. The lady (she has grown up now :-) has a refined, erudite taste and judgement. I was pleasantly surprised to know she had perused my blog some time back. She said, 'I found it D A RR KKK'.
Merci Beaucoup, Madame. I am much honoured. On a 'lighter' vein let me do some damage control to my reputation.

Here's wishing you all a mirthful, uneventful, safe and prosperous Diwali. May the sparkle of lights drive out all the darkness around you. For the darkness within, you would need enlightenment, which shall eventually come. You need to wait for it. Want to check wether it has already dawned upon you? Use my litmus test. Read the line below -
'Would not a speck of dust so close to the eye, blot out the entire glory of the world'
Ok.. so what do you think. If your mind has begun singing 'Kya karu hai, Kuch kuch hota hai' AND if your ears are picking the chords of the background music clearly ... Congratulations. Oh Enlightened One.

Stay Alive people. Sincere wishes for a Happy Diwali. I am not as DARRKKK as I may appear!

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